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I loved Him And I Know I still Love Him, But I Promise One Day I’ll Love Someone Else

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“I loved him and I know I still Love him, but I promise one day I will love someone else” its a statement that i have heard a couple of times, after the dinner parties and board meetings are over, i love my job and i need to catch up with colleagues, but this statement keeps disturbing my mind.

Falling in love is one of the most exciting, rewarding and scariest things you could ever do. Once you are in love with someone, it’s hard to remember how you lived without him or her. Of course yes, you were alive before you met this person, but you really didn’t start “living” until the two of you met.

The first love is well remembered by many, to some it is a very scary feeling, others strange and others even describing it would be out of their comprehension.  I had managed to elude love for the entirety of my life before the college life would tear my brains apart, computer science was not a good choice but i still love computers. I specifically remember the transition from when I liked her to when I began to love her.

We went from being someone who made each other smile to being the greatest catalyst of the happiness and joy in life. She went from a gorgeous girl I met to the most beautiful girl I knew. She went from my crush to the love of my life.

Everyone experiences love differently, and at different times. Even the meaning of love is extremely subjective, but I say for certain that anyone who’s experienced it knows it’s the best feeling ever.

Love is difficult subject to hurdle and only the most experienced writer will make a  good impact on the subject, It’s loved by all.

I have read numerous books and a wide literature on love as a subject in different contents be it Religion, Life, work and others, and here is my conclusions.

Couple walking their dog on sunset, vector illustration

Couple walking their dog on sunset.

10 Points to know your in love.

1.    The highlight of your day.

When I’m alone, I’d rather be with you, No matter how great your day might be going, your special person will make it better. When you just like someone, he or she might make your day better, but probably isn’t the best part. Seeing you love is always the highlight of your day. If you really love someone, you never truly get tired of him or her.

2.    The first person you think about.

Your love will be the first person you think about when you wake up and the last person you think about before you go to sleep. When something good happens to you, this is the first person you want to tell, Many of us will relate to the good morning and good night texts, When something bad happens to you, you look to this person for support and mostly they will be the first to know.

3.    Prioritize above your own needs,

Love is selfless. I was the most important person in my world until I met my girlfriend. Once I fell in love with her, her needs became much more important than my own. This is just how love is. Your needs always seem trivial in comparison to your significant others needs.

4.    For anything, am there.

If I tried to construct a list of things I wouldn’t do for my girlfriend, the list would be pretty empty. When you’re in love with someone, you do whatever you can to make the person happy. When you like someone, you may feel like there is a lot you would do for the person, but you have your limits. True love knows no limits, and love is the greatest of all.

5.     Express your feelings in public without fear.

I have this semi-bad habit of telling the world how in love I am with my girlfriend. When you’re truly in love, you want everyone to know. You are not bashful about your feelings by any means. When you like someone, there is a lot of holding back on how you feel.

6.     Perfect imperfections.

My girlfriend is the most beautiful girl I know, but she does have some imperfections, just like every one does, you, me, sister brother, But to me they’re not imperfections, they’re unique qualities and things I love. When I tease her about them, she thinks I am making fun of her, but I am truly just admiring them. Love is the ability to know and accept  someone’s faults. You may know the imperfections of a person you like, but having the capacity to embrace them likely won’t happen unless you fall in love.

7.     Long-term combined thinking.

When you’re in love with someone, it’s hard to imagine a future without the person in it. For this reason, you will think long-term about how you can build a life with this person. You won’t give in to short-term temptations that might mess up your long-term goals. When you just like someone, thinking long-term can be pretty scary.

8.     Completing each other to be a better person.

No one is perfect; we all have room for improvement. But being in love will force you to work on these things. You want to become the best version of yourself for the person you love. I am a better person now than I was before I met my girlfriend.

9.     Your feelings are unconditional.

When you love someone unconditionally, it means that your love knows no conditions and is absolute. I don’t actually like the term “unconditional love” because I think it’s redundant, I believe a true love is unconditional. When you like someone, your feelings change depending on the conditions, but you love its no conditions thing.

10.    Be best friends.

Your significant other becomes your partner in crime. You feel like, together, you can take on the world Sometime along the way, my girlfriend became my best friend. I believe this to be true for most people who fall in love.

After evaluating and thinking deeply of the points above i hope that the statements will one day dry off our lips. “I loved Him And I Know I still Love Him, But I Promise One Day I’ll Love Someone Else”


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    so touching my fr

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